It’s torture. The therapist is no help either.
we used to have sex once a week, which I was happy with and had accepted but now it’s more like once every 5-6 weeks if I am lucky. And I suspect this is what’s brought you to this page.I lost my Husband to another lady, we’ve married for 5 years and he is all i could call a true best friend and best in all , the man that handle my problems perfectly , the man that sacrifices for my happiness . Because by doing so over and over you’re reinforcing the vicious cycle described above, and no matter what your partner tells you, that ultimate reassurance will never come.Are you sure that what you’re imagining or envisioning is “fact?” Did it happen EXACTLY as you’re picturing it? I’ve cheated a billion times and this is my confession here late at night.
I was very supportive of it and even told her not to worry about giving it to me, but now, it just adds to the mess in my head and pisses me off more.You’re showing me the way Jeff!
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I tried to let it go but it came back to bite me.
My cousin knew I was interested in my now husband and he knew it too and he claims he was too shy to say anything but was also interested in me. I literally obsessed and dwelled on it CONSTANTLY. On the surface I’m a very successful man, I have four children, an awesome car, a big house, a high paying job and a loving wife. 8 Pros and Cons of Joining the Army. That are making love has never been this good.
Don’t beat yourself up over it and think you’re a failure who’ll never beat retroactive jealousy OCD.Have you taken a look at my book “How To Stop Being Jealous Of Your Partner’s Past In 12 Steps”?
5. Every week end we would go to the drive in and screw in the back seat. Please help us, I can’t live like this much longer.Does your book come as a hard copy?After a few weeks we started getting closer which is when my ocd about that grew stronger. I was young and immature. Not to mention out of all men Ive dated this is the one that has put me in the hardest position do to his wild past p.s. I also have BP2. I am a pisces so I have trouble controlling my anger and emotions.I have read so many articles on retroactive jealosy but this post is in fact a nice post, keep it up.But the truth is, there are more similarities between traditional OCD intrusive thoughts and retroactive jealousy OCD-related thoughts than you may realize. I think I need to get over the RJ first, because it is something I definitely suffer from, and breaking up with her now would leave me with RJ AND a broken heart!